THE GAMES
Are you loving them right?
Twelve quick questions about you. Find your real love language, and whether you show it securely, anxiously, or at arm's length.
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Their rough day. You first...
- Take something off their to-do list
- Text something that makes them feel seen
- Clear your evening, just be there
- Hug them before anyone talks
You show love by...
- Doing it before they ask
- Saying it. Often.
- Making time, even when busy
- Reaching for their hand
No reply for hours. You...
- Carry on, they'll reply
- Send a 'you okay?' follow-up
- Plan what you'll do when you see them
- Feel off till you're near them again
Perfect night in...
- Fixing something together
- A long, honest talk
- No phones, just us
- Movie, blanket, max closeness
After a fight, you...
- Fix the actual problem first
- Say everything right away
- Take space, come back calm
- Need to be close again first
A compliment that lands...
- You never make me feel like a burden
- I never have to guess how you feel
- You always make time for me
- Being near you is the easiest thing
When things go really well, you...
- Do even more, just in case
- Say it so much it feels like too much
- Worry your time isn't enough
- Pull back a little
Friends say your love language is...
- Doing things, quietly
- Saying exactly how you feel
- Making time, always
- Being close, no words needed
Things get 'too real'. You...
- Get busy being useful
- Talk about it. A lot.
- Spend even more time together
- Pull back without meaning to
Best gift...
- Something they made or fixed
- A letter with exactly how they feel
- A whole day, just for you
- Something small that reminds them of you
Your biggest love fear...
- Giving it all, unnoticed
- Saying it, never hearing it back
- Becoming an afterthought
- Slowly drifting into strangers
You'd want them to tell friends...
- I never had to ask
- They said it right when I needed it
- They were always there
- I felt it before they said a word
- Acts of Service
- Words of Affirmation
- Quality Time
- Touch & Presence